Ins and Outs can be powerful guideposts as you craft your iconic identity and create the life and business you want in the year ahead.
Now, keep in mind… they’re not just a fun exercise that you post on Instagram (although you can if you want), they’re a declaration of what aligns with your future self and what doesn’t.
These lists help you focus on the vibes, values, and standards that matter most, cutting through the noise and giving you clarity and direction so you don’t have to wonder if X or Y is a good decision.
You will just know.
Essentially, the power of making an Ins and Outs list lies in its simplicity: it’s a way to define who you are becoming and what you stand for. Easy, peasy right?
This is how you intentionally create a life that feels effortless, aligned, and iconic.
And what better day to reflect on your priorities and design your life?
I’ll go first.
Keep in mind… These lists aren’t advice or a prescription. They’re for me and me only. You do you!
My goal here is to inspire you to think about what matters to you, dig deep, and create your own!
Ready? Let’s do this!
2025 Ins
- Luxury + Ease: It’s all about rich AF vibes (not just dollars but in all the ways) without the hustle. Luxury isn’t just material; it’s about how you move, think, and live—with ease and intention. Money (while it definitely matters) has very little to do with it for me.
- Identity-Based Everything: SELF Made energy runs the show. Every decision, every move? It’s aligned with who my future self is becoming.
- Bold + Unapologetic: No more playing small or trying to keep the peace. Bold moves only, and no people-pleasing allowed.
- Skincare Obsessed: Glow goals are non-negotiable. Radiant, healthy skin is the move.
- Effortless Content: I’m documenting and not overthinking it. Authenticity wins over perfection every time.
- Iconic Personal Style: Power dressing isn’t just about clothes—it’s about embodying the confidence and energy of the life I’m building and the person I’m becoming.
- Playful Profanity: As per usual, I’m keeping it real and raw. If a well-placed f-bomb ruffles feathers, so be it.
- Delusional Confidence: Because honestly? Why not. Everything is possible when you believe it is.
- Prioritizing Sleep: I can’t live my best, richest life running on fumes. Rest is the ultimate flex.
- Time Freedom: Work less, live more. Time is wealth, and I’m hoarding it.
2025 Outs
- Overcomplicating Sh*t: Simplicity is sexy. I’ve stopped making things harder than they need to be.
- Hustle Culture: Burnout isn’t a badge of honor. I’m not impressing anyone by working mySELF into the ground.
- Low-Ticket Offers: I’m not the sale rack at Target. Premium energy only.
- People-Pleasing: My energy is worth more than keeping others comfortable.
- Trendy Fads: No thanks. Timeless, classic energy is the move.
- Trying Too Hard: Authenticity > effort. Being true to mySELF is what matters.
- Settling for Mediocre: Iconic moves only.
- “Nice Girl” Energy: I’m not here to play nice or shrink mySELF for others.
- Chasing Followers: Relationships > numbers. I’m building a tribe, not just a crowd.
- Stress Vibes: Stress is so last decade. This year, it’s all about peace, power, and being unbothered.
Your Turn
So again, this list is mine, but what about YOU?
What does your future self value?
What makes them tick?
And what feels aligned, and what feels like dead weight?
Today, I invite you to create your own Ins and Outs list.
Start by asking:
- Who do I want to become by the end of this year?
- What aligns with the energy, standards, and identity of my future self?
- What needs to go?
Keep it unapologetically you.
Use it like a bible.
Stick to it like your life depends on it, because honestly? It kind of does.
Because when you live in alignment with the identity of your future self, everything else becomes effortless.
Try it!
Or… not.
The choice, as always, is yours.
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