How was your week?
Mine was good overall. 
We had some intense winds here in LA that made me nervous, I ain’t gonna lie.
It’s still crazy to think of the fires that swept through and I’ve heard some people say it will take decades to fully rebuild what was lost.
I’ve been focused on my health, my family, and my business and that’s helped.
Rain and I had the best girl’s day last week and I had brunch with friends that fed my soul.
I’ve also been focused on finalizing another program that I can’t wait to release!
It’s the full playbook of how I run my business, build courses, create iconic brands, and put it all on passive income.
I’ve had so much fun with it and now it’s almost ready to roll. Stay tuned!
As I was creating it, there were several times that I stopped and reflected on where I came from and how I created this life I live today.
It was eye-opening to say the least.
So today, I want to share the 3 lessons that made me a millionaire in hopes that they serve you too – no matter where your journey might take you.
Ready? Let’s get into it!
Love you! Stay safe!
Cynthia
The 3 Lessons That Made Me a Millionaire
Let me take you back for a minute.
It was 1984… I’m kidding! Ain’t nobody got time for that.
Here’s the long and short of it…
I didn’t grow up living a life of luxury.
Instead, I grew up with no running water, taking baths in a creek, and using an outhouse until I was 15 years old.
My family survived on $13,000 a year for four people.
I was teased for wearing clothes from dumpsters and skipping lunch because I didn’t want anyone to see my free lunch ticket.
Life was hard, no doubt about it.
But I knew—even then—that I was meant for more.
And when I say “more,” I’m not just talking about money.
I’m talking about a life of choice.
A life where I called the shots.
A life where I didn’t have to ask, “What the actual fuck do I do now?” every time something went sideways.
Fast-forward to today…
I’m building a billion-dollar empire and living a life I once thought was impossible.
How?
It all comes down to three lessons I learned along the way.
Here they are:
Lesson 1: Stop Waiting for Permission
No one’s going to hand you the life you want and no one is coming to save you.
You have to do it yourSELF.
And the best part? You don’t need a green light from your parents, partner, boss, or the universe.
If I’d waited for permission, I’d still be stuck in that tiny house with no running water.
I’d be living in the same small town, scraping paycheck to paycheck, scrolling other people’s lives on Instagram.
And that’s 100% ok if that’s the life you want – no judging – but I wanted more.
So, here’s what I did:
I gave myself permission to dream bigger, take risks, and make bold moves—even when it scared the shit out of me.
I didn’t ask people if they thought I could do it or if it was a good idea.
I just took action.
You can do the same.
So, ask yourself: What are you waiting for permission to do? And why?
Lesson 2: Wealth Is Built on Identity, Not Hustle
Here’s something people don’t talk about: Hustling day in and day out won’t make you wealthy.
Changing your identity will.
Now… in TOTAL transparency (cause that’s how I roll)…
I TRIED to grind my way out of poverty.
I worked hard, burned the midnight oil, and promptly hit rock bottom.
Then, I got smarter and decided to do things different.
I started by imagining who I wanted to become.
I pictured myself living in a big city, running my own business, and being surrounded by wealth—mentally, emotionally, and financially.
Then I asked, “What would that version of me do today?”
Here’s the truth: When you change your identity, your actions follow.
You don’t need to hustle harder; you just need to act like the future version of yourself, right now.
When I did that, everything changed.
I know… I WISH I had known that sooner – which is why I preach and teach about this now!
I’m trying to save you the wasted time, sanity, and well-being.
Write down who your future self is. What do they believe? How do they act? Do they become a millionaire? Then start making decisions from that identity today.
Lesson 3: Play Bigger Than You Think You Can
When you’re coming from nothing, it’s easy to play small.
To think, “If I just make enough to get by, I’ll be okay. I’ve got more than poor Mary over there. I’m good.”
But okay and good aren’t what you’re here for.
You’re here to build a life that feels expansive, empowering, effortless, and fucking limitless – all while feeling unbothered.
Playing bigger means taking risks, saying no to the shit that doesn’t serve you, and going after the opportunities that scare you.
Because that’s where the magic happens.
I invite you to look at your current goals.
Are they bold enough to stretch you? Or are you just playing it safe?
In Summary
These three lessons that helped me become a millionaire didn’t just change my life—they made my life.
And they can do the same for you.
You don’t need a perfect plan or a flawless strategy.
You just need to give yourself permission, shift your identity, and play bigger than you ever have before.
Your future self is waiting. Go meet them.
Let me know in the comments or share your next steps with me on Instagram.
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