Do You Want To Become Confident Quickly?
Oh my gosh, I have to tell you…
I’ve been struggling the past couple of weeks with some weird sinus thing and I’m now over it.
Yesterday I got an IV with alllll the vitamins plus NAD and a glutathione push (highly recommend). And, I got a Vitamin D injection of 50,000 IUs so I’m feeling better today.
Still not 100% but better. And of course, the timing is the WORST.
But… isn’t that usually how it goes?
Anyway… I hopped on social media this week because I really wanted to ask our community something.
I wanted to know… What is the REAL reason you aren’t creating the life you want?
And the answers broke my heart.
Here are a few…
“I’m insecure.”
“I’m not confident enough.”
“I just don’t feel like I have what it takes.”
“I’m afraid I will fail. That I won’t be good enough at what I’m doing.”
“Imposter syndrome.”
And the one that turned my heart inside out….
“I’m afraid of who/what I will lose when I start living as my true authentic self.”
Man. We have work to do.
The through line for all these answers (and many others) is insecurity. In other words, people just don’t feel confident.
But when I look at the women who responded… they are MAGIC! Like fire in a bottle! They have SO much to offer and I hate that they aren’t in awe of themselves.
I’m going to be saying MUCH more about this in the future but for now, I want you to know that no one is confident by default.
You have to work at it. But you absolutely, positively have SO MUCH to be confident about. Yes, really.
So today, I’d like to invite you to take some time and reflect on all the sh*t you’re great at.
Whether it’s baking a tasty apple pie, supporting a family member or friend in their time of need, or surviving a traumatic event or illness –write it down.
Don’t censor yourself. Let it flow. Be in the moment.
And most importantly… don’t hold back.
Are you a great knitter? A baby whisperer? The life of the party? Do you have great penmanship? Are you loyal? Do you love with all of your heart?
Again, write it down. Think outside the box. You are so much more amazing than you think you are.
We’ll keep talking about this topic because I realize that if you’re not confident, then nothing else I say will help you take action.
My goal for you is that you stop making decisions based on your fear of failure, rejection, and judgement.
It’s time to break out of your self-imposed prison and live life like you mean it.
Because you deserve it.
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